Friday, March 03, 2006

Licence to Kill!!!!!!!

What?Is it true?
Absolutely
Where?
In my college.
What?
yes its true.
Cost?
Nothing.Just ur Ass.
What?
Yep.
Who issues it?
The person who issues it ,actually gets screwd.Funny as it may sound ,but its true.
Are u refering to....

Yes my friend u got that right.I am refering to the three b's(barbaric birthday bashes)
The day u announce that ur b'day is on so and so date U r literally fixing ur date with YAMA. The other day i saw my frd getting one hell of a beating and the only mistake he did was to make his b'day date public.In just a matter of few minutes his 'Happy' birthday was turned into Pain.

Come On guys.Is this the way we greet our frds on their b'day.In our school days we were like eagerly waiting for our b'days. We were waiting for all those calls at 12,receiving all those warm smiles and wishes.We enjoyed the fact that we were given priority/special treatment that day.Friends and Family try to make u feel Special. U somehow felt good about being born on that day.U want everyone to know that its ur b'day today.But here...... U wish no one knows that its ur b'day today.u hide from ur frds.Ur own frds are now ur yamadhuths.

When asked why do people involve in such barbaric acts--- I got a list of wierd answers.
"We only intend to have some fun"
How can u have fun when u see the guy growling in pain(and almost crying with pain) unless u r some kind of a jerk who derives sadistic pleasure on hearing others mourn and cry with pain.
"We just want to make his day memorable"
Oh yeah.tell me something that i don't know.He is for sure going to remember it forever but is it the way it should be?Think people.
"Hey even i don't like to kick people.But that was till yesterday.I was in his shoes yesterday.I just want to return the Favour"
Its just like when we were juniors in our b.tech we hated ragging.But once we became seniors we thought --we were not spared by our seniors then why shud we spare our juniors.

It has become recursive or rather a cycle.U kick someone,he kicks someone (so that the other person also goes thru the same agony that he went) and that someone will kick someone else and this goes on.some day u r on the HitList.The amount of pain u induce into the system increases with every recursive step.

Sometimes these bashes become so wild that i really fear that something might go wrong someday.The poor guy is kicked with out any mercy and often few blows are off target and hit the guy in the spine and sometimes in some sensitive areas.It is really dangerous at times.The 'bakra' as he is called is thrown into the pond which has a rocky bed causing a lot of pain to the 'bakra' when he falls in some awkward position.Who is responsible if he breaks a bone or worse if a damage occurs to the spine.

Having fun is different.It shud be fun to both the parties involved.And the worst part is that when i ask people to stop they ask me----" when is ur b'day ?".

I have even seen people trying to settle there differences in such bashes.When ever some one has some issue with someone he asks his frd "Aee bidu ,patha kar iska b'day kab hein".

Isn't this going too far.
Plzz stop involving in such acts and if possible try to make the guy feel happy or special not a 'Bakra' ...

6 comments:

meherme said...

ya i totally agree with ur view,but one thing i want to convey u is that,the person whom u were talking in the blog ,will definitely remember his birthday thru out his life,this memory will remain with him forever.He may not remember all his birthdays.Whenever he celebrates his next birthday he will definitely remember this birthday and in process will remeber many of us(friends).One thing i can say is ,he will not have many b'days of this sort.....,ok then
keep blogging.....

Anonymous said...

fine that you raised the issue, but i dont agree with you completely. see these are the times where "we" really have fun. by using "we" i mean we friends. we dont have any grudge on him and moreover i dont think the b'day bash goes on like a barbaric act. some shots may be hurting but they arent of the range of breaking the bones or some thing more serious. see everyone is considerate to the guy who recieves the bumps. they dont intend to hurt him or make him lie down with pain. in most cases atleast i observed, the reciever will have fun later. once you revisit those moments you feel a kind of happiness. i have 90% confidence that the guy remembers the day happily for the rest of his life. i too went through the same while i was in inter. this seemed to be bad for me too initially, but as time went by i get to remember many of my friends whenever my b'day is approaching or whenever the thought comes to my mind. yeah i surely agree with you that these can be dangerous at times but all these have limits and we are well within the limits as you can see. sometimes the bash seems to be sooo barbaric but there would be nothing going on there. friends will be around they will be constantly monitoring the situation and when they feel things are going out of hand or they are losing control then they stop it or decrease the intensity drastically. so dont bother much about issues like these. may be you didnt have your share of b'day bumps any time. get to see the taste yaar.

Ravi Kiran said...

to anonymous:

"see these are the times where "we" really have fun. by using "we" i mean we friends. "

i agree that we have fun but that is when the bashes don't go beyond a certain limit.After that it is only pain.

"i have 90% confidence that the guy remembers the day happily for the rest of his life."

as i said if the bashes go out of hand then the guy will remember it for sure,but i don't think he is going to appreciate it.

"sometimes the bash seems to be sooo barbaric but there would be nothing going on there. friends will be around they will be constantly monitoring the situation and when they feel things are going out of hand or they are losing control then they stop it or decrease the intensity drastically"

why do u get in to such situations in the first place? And r u an expert in human anotomy? there are various places in the body which are really sensitive, not may have the knowledge abt them. Can u guarantee me that none of those bizzard kicks wud ever land in such places?

"may be you didnt have your share of b'day bumps any time"

believe me , i had mine.

Ravi Kiran said...

@Yuva
nennu chepedhi adhe ra.
Eroju okkadu kodthadu, repu vadu thintadu. endhuku ee gola. sarle nuvvu anatu lite thiskunte better..

Sekhar said...


@ravikiran

->i like to raise a different point here...the b'day boy can know the response of his frnds n others...who [r] frndly/know [to] him....he feels really happy if thers a big crowd to wish him...n i feel thers no other time he can find frnds...ofcourse i dont mean to say tht whoever is not present is not a frnd,but ther will be a little concern for those who r present...bashesssssssssss r just to remind him tht we r his frndssssss...n never to forget in his life...

chandu

Ravi Kiran said...

@ chandu
i am not against having a big crowd nor am i against bashes. all i am against is those senseless ass-kicking.
Don't get me wrong but do u show ur love to ur loved ones by slapping her on the face and 'remind' her that u love her the most?